Friendship Is...

• sending a text letting her know you are thinking about her
• forwarding a blog post about a topic you know she is interested in
• leaving a voice mail even though you know she won't answer her phone
• sending her a message on Facebook
• dropping something off at her house for her or her kids
• discussing a Facebook post over messenger
• sending a long lengthy email in the middle of the night
• sending an email with only something in the subject line
• sending a text with only emoticons
• asking about her first before diving into the latest craziness in your life
• diving straight into the craziness of your life and realizing you haven't even asked about her
• sending her a Pinterest pin because you saw it and it immediately made you think of her
• making her cookies
• bringing her dinner
• leaving a bottle of wine at her front door
• being her children's emergency contact
• checking in for no reason at all
• calling on the way to work because you know you are both in the car
• remembering her birthday
• remembering her children's birthdays
• knowing that when she says she is fine, she really isn't
• not worrying about the time of day when you reach out
• reaching out when you are scared
• reaching out when you are thrilled
• reaching out when you are confused
• supporting her no matter what, even if don't agree with her
• listening
• looking her in the eye when you are talking
• figuring out what her love language is - because love languages aren't only for romantic love
• picking something up at the store for her
• sharing her excitement
• crying with her
• praying for her
• praying with her
• asking for prayer
• making plans to get together
• understanding when plans fall through
• making plans again